A Blog for Gay, Interracial Couples

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Anonymous asked: How do you find someone who's open to interracial dating?

to be very honest. I don’t think you’re going about it the right way.

Work on you. work on becoming the best person you know how. the truest form of yourself. and then people around you will notice and they’ll fall in love with you, some more than others. 

Don’t approach life and dating as a check list. “I want to be in an interracial relationship” kind of undermines the purpose of this blog in that, these people just found love. they found love with another person who loves them back. if you go into a relationship looking for X race so it’s different from you so it’s “interracial” you aren’t really looking for a boyfriend, you’re looking for a prop, for someone to fulfill an image or quota you have in your head. I’ve had many people tell me they “liked black guys”, and then be very disappointed when they got to meet me and talk to me, because I wasn’t “black enough” for them.  I’m sure my followers can tell you similar stories.

I promise you this, you won’t find love if you’re waiting for prince charming to find you. You are the hero in the story of your life, and you have to go find him. Go out, make friends, make dating profiles, take up new hobbies. basically go live your life. That’s the best way to find a boyfriend. I think of it like this. Imagine if you met your dream person right now. today after you read this message. he’s perfect and wonderful and whateves. SWEET!. now, what stories are you going to tell him? ponder that for a moment. What stories about your life, adventures, mistakes etc, are you going to share with him to make him see the whole you? To make him laugh, to make him marvel at you? Instead of waiting and worrying and pacing at home waiting for a guy to “be open to interracial dating” to come along, go live your life. I promise you, when you live your life, and love living it, you’ll find love as well.

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Myself, left - I’m Filipino, Hawaiian, Chamorro and Spanish. My boyfriend, right, He’s African American, White, and Native American. 

You guys are so beautiful, and so in love it’s wonderful. thank you so much for submitting.
Hugs and Love,

Myself, left - I’m Filipino, Hawaiian, Chamorro and Spanish. My boyfriend, right, He’s African American, White, and Native American. 

You guys are so beautiful, and so in love it’s wonderful. thank you so much for submitting.

Hugs and Love,